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Behavior Management

Planning Room is:

  • A place to process alternative ways of responding to a difficult situation.
  • A place to listen to the student and how they feel about the situation.
  • A place to build relationships between students and adults.
  • A place to be calm.
  • A place to take a time out if part of a behavior plan
  • A place to be fair to both sides.
  • Promote short-term solution.
  • A place to help build a student’s sense of competence and confidence related to solving common everyday difficulties.
  • Involve and empower the student to solve the problem.
  • Just one part of the disciplinary system.


Planning Room is Not:

  • A place for academic support.
  • A place for counseling and therapy.
  • A place for in school suspension.
  • A place for a student to take a nap.
  • Magic or a quick fix to a problem.
  • To take sides.
  • Equal but fair.
  • Punitive.
  • The whole disciplinary system.

Level 1 Behaviors are those behaviors that are dealt with by the teacher or supervising adult in the classroom. 

Here are some tips dealing with:

Off task behaviors
Disruptions
Inappropriate Verbal Interactions
Non-responsive to verbal directions
Inattention to classroom work
Unprepared for class
Late for class
Innappropriate Attire
Cheating: Clear Expectations
Play Fighting
Breakfast Passes
Cell Phones

Off task behaviors:

  • Proximity
  • Reminders or quiet redirections
  • Eye contact/ verbal and eye contact
  • Saying their name
  • Investing time to get them going/direct teaching
  • Planned ignoring
  • start working with the student and ignore the behavior
  • Move around classroom while talking and head towards behavior and walk away
  • Mini conference by kneeling down next to them:” Why am I talking to you right now?”
  • Evil eye (Stacy)
  • Stop class and redirect focus:  “we’re doing this”
  • Name on the board check system  3 checks is a detention: Can earn name off board, if come talk at end of class will remove:  otherwise detention
  • Humor  “welcome to planet science”
  • Planned ignoring
  • Nonverbal cues: pointing at task, eye contact
  • Talking hand to mouth sh
  • Make sure the students understand the work
  • “Can you explain to me why you are off task?  Should you be talking..?”

Disruptions

  • Warning with redirection
  • Conversations outside of classroom with student
  • I statements (what you are observing,  ask can you explain what is happening, state the expectation, discuss consequence-plan)
  • Check for understanding
  • Mini conference
  • Evil eye
  • Humor
  • Hallway and check in (non-threatening manner)
  • Address the behavior identifying what you need instead of naming behavior:  “I need you to…”
  • Even/calm voice
  • Repeat offenders conversation outside the classroom
  • Can I see you in the hall, “so what’s going on?”
  • Clear verbal warning
  •  “The expectation is….”
  •  “What are you doing, you’re in the classroom, and what should you be doing?”

Inappropriate verbal interactions: shut up, nobody cares what you think, lashing out this is gay, this is stupid, directed profanity towards peer (Planning Room)

  • Firm reminder
  • State “that’s not respectful and everyone on the team deserves respect.” “He doesn’t deserve.”
  • Try not to ask them why they said that
  • “If you need to move or make a better choice right now please do it”
  • Detention
  • Reiterate classroom expectations: “We don’t talk to each other like that; we talk to each other respectfully.”
  • “sorry is there a way you could restate that”
  • “what are you going to say to make amends to that”
  • Do you know what the real meaning is
  • “What is homosexual about your paper?”
  • Gay, stupid, give education/information about word use
  • State that’s offensive
  • “Some of my friends are gay”
  • Take kids in the hall and provide information what it may look in the future
  • “You don’t know if I am gay or not. Would you want to offend me?”
  • “Do you know exactly what you are trying to say?  Do you think words impact people, what if somebody say that to you?”

Non-responsive to verbal directions

  • Remind them someone is asking them to do something reasonable
  • As long as not being a distraction, address behaviors after class
  • If you don’t get this done it really is not going to be in your favor  review time limits and impact on grade
  • Change tone and face: the mom look, look letting them know you mean business
  • Discussion in the hall
  • Give a warning and walk away
  • Redirection: remind them of the expectation
  • Ask them if they understand what’s happening
  • Hallway conversations
  • “Can you hear me speaking to you right now?”
  • Offer some kind of choice
  • “Is there a reason you are not doing what I’m asking you?”
  • “Are you angry with something I have done?”
  • If kids from other teams run away in hallway: follow them to their location to inform teacher and have conversation with their teacher there.

Inattention to classroom work

  • Have conversation to find out what might be going on
  • Give them break maybe tomorrow will be better
  • Personal accountability: make up work time after school
  • As long as their not being disruptive they have the right to fail
  • “This is the time to clean out your ears and listen to what I have to say”
  • One redirection  then conversation outside of classroom
  • Parent contact if repeated
  • Check-in if understand or if choice:  thumbs up , side , down if understand or not
  • Color cup or something on desk determining whether they understand
  • Avoid power struggle with student.
  • Questions: What are you doing? What should you be doing?

Unprepared for class

  • Suffer the consequences: your responsible
  • Can’t go get it ask peers to help
  • Find what you need, figure it out
  • Loss of computer: write
  • Chronic: meeting
  • Provide pencils and paper. If they do not have planner then write on paper
  • Reminders in advance that if not prepared will bring down team members
  • Help organize
  • Get your stuff and give them stuff
  • Penalty
  • Pass to their locker
  • Pens and Pencils with flags

Late for Class

  • 5 minutes in between classes  wrote down time
  •  Reminder, make time up between SSR and lunch, after school, detention
  • 4 tardies is a detention
  • Penalty of points for the day
  • Ask questions why they are late. work with them on how to make it on time
  • Allow one per quarter, then detentions
  • Call parent with concern
  • Becomes level two if not follow consequences

Inappropriate Attire

  • Private conversation: not ask if they know the dress code, approach as looking out for them
  • Recommend that same sex address
  • Eye contact and pretend to pull up shirt ( for girls showing)
  • Put it away
  • As woman we have to look out for each other and I hope your friends would….
  • Boys:  “I should not know what color your underwear is”
  • Have a woman address
  • “This is not personalized, this is not about you.”
  • When dressed appropriate “You look really nice today.”

Inappropriate display of affection

  • Use humor
  •  Tell student No PDA in middle school

Cheating: clear expectations

  • Conversation: can’t take credit
  • 0 and/or call home
  • not vigilant on day to day stuff
  • Natural consequence: assessment won’t know the info.

Play Fighting: Unnecessary Roughness

  • First observation: redirection/stop
  •  Is the student a hand’s on kids?
  • Is the student angry if yes ask more questions

Breakfast/ Passes

  • Student needs to check in first if bus is a later one
  • Have Betsy send list of Breakfast attendees so you know who is going to breakfast from your team
  • Have student bring breakfast to TA
  • Ask student to go when they get off the bus.
  • If a continual problem have an adult go to cafeteria and asses the situation
  • Check Betsy’s list if student is buying breakfast or just leaving the class to wander
  • Wanderers: 1st time warning 2nd time detention with a call home.
  • Sending teacher call receiving teachers
  • Taking passes away for a week
  • Always give passes for everything and tell student you need it back with a signature from the adult letting them go back